Tuesday, 19 February 2013

Relationships!!!

The number one source of stress among humans is Relationship. 
The secret to a successful relationship is Knowledge. Love does not keep relationship. Self knowledge and self love are important keys for relationship. You don't need to be in relationship/ in love to fulfill God's purpose in your life.
Relationships most times takes your commitment from your purpose.
Relationship does not solve loneliness problems.
Relationship is a choice, not a requirement.
The more you develop yourself, the more value you can bring into a relationship. 
Your purpose is not in a relationship, it is in you. 
You have 75years to live minimum, 25yrs -me, 25yrs -we, 25yrs -them.
It is better to not be in a relationship than to be in one and depressed.
Breakup is not a sin, if you made a bad decision, get knowledge and be whole.
Wisdom, knowledge and understanding is what sustains a relationship. Learn to understand people, age does not qualify you for relationship, knowledge does. You are ready for relationship when you have the right knowledge not when you love a mate. 
Breakup is impossible without a relationship.
Your relationship is only as good as your single life.
If you don't get knowledge in your single life, it will affect the relationship. You bring to your relationship what you already are, If you are ignorant before relationship chances are you will be ignorant during the relationship.
Whatever people are as a single, they bring into a relationship.
If they don't change before the relationship, they won't change after the relationship. Relationship most times magnifies who people really are. Most times what we call love is unnecessary risks.
Never confuse singleness with being single.
Singleness is a state to be pursued not avoided. 
To be single should be everyone's goal.
Relationship gets better the more single you become.
Being single is not the same as being unmarried.
Singleness is a disposition, unmarried is a state. 
First thing a guy needs: Gen 2: 15-17
-Presence of God
-Work
-Protect/ Guard
-Cultivate/ Develop/ make other people better 
-Keep God's command/ Teach you God's Word
When you truly discover yourself, you don't need others to get value. What makes you attractive is when you don't need somebody.
What are you bringing into the relationship- you should be an asset, not a burden or a deficit. 
It is ok to be single, but its not good to be alone.
Alone is not the same as single.
Singleness is the most important and original state of a human being that God made, male and female.
Stay single until you are ready for marriage.
Single- Separate, Unique, Whole
Separate- distinct from everyone else, you don't need people to feel like somebody(valuable by yourself)
Unique- bring distinct qualities 
Whole- Complete with yourself.(You are somebody all by yourself)
Alone- To be exclusive, to be the only one of your kind.
to not be alone, it is to be with another human being.

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